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September 22, 2026

The Client Who Cried, and What It Taught Me About Purpose

I've always been allergic to purpose-driven marketing as a phrase. Then a client cried during a brand presentation, and I had to admit I might be exactly that.

I've always been allergic to the phrase purpose-driven marketing. It's the kind of thing people say to signal they're one of the good ones, not because it means anything specific.

Then a client cried during a brand presentation, and I had to admit I might be exactly that.

What happened

She runs a direct primary care medical practice, membership-based, she owns it outright. I'd worked with her on something small, then pushed to take on the whole thing, positioning, offer, brand, system. We went through the real exercises, messaging, audience, the works. When I presented the finished identity, she and her assistant cried. Not from disappointment. I got emotional too, sitting there watching it land.

Why this one was different

The difference wasn't the deliverable. I've delivered plenty of good work that didn't move anyone. The difference was that everything about the engagement had been transparent from the start. She told me what she could and couldn't afford, plainly, every time. No hidden board pulling strings six months in, no budget that turned out to be a different number once I was already committed. When the foundation is that honest, the work built on top of it means something to both people, not just one.

The actual lesson

I don't think purpose-driven is a marketing style. I think it's what happens automatically when a client is fully transparent and the work is genuinely earned instead of pitched. Chase the feeling directly and you get a buzzword. Chase transparency in the relationship, and the feeling shows up on its own, when it's real.

How to Connect

Email

Send me an email—it’s the easiest way to avoid spam calls.

Text

Seems like this is the new normal. Go ahead and text—I’ll reply.

Call

If you call, I won’t answer. Leave a voicemail, I’ll get back. Thanks.